Dualities are just illusions.
Life is full of dualities - two sides to every coin, pain and pleasure, ups and downs, challenge and support, positives and negatives, etc. Whenever we get drawn to either side of the polarity we enter into a state of illusion. Our natural state is a place of love, balance and where we are centered. Anytime we go to one end of the polarity, the natural state of equilibrium that this world is in pulls us back by serving us with the other end of the polarity.
If we are elated, we usually experience something that brings us back to the centre and into natural equilibrium. If we are depressed, there is usually something that naturally happens and we are drawn to that brings us back to the centre. This is where we experience presence, our true loving nature.
Common paradigms tells us to be positive all the time and in doing so we surpress our negativity. A true master is one who can embrace both dualities and rise to deal with the situation at present. A true master is one who knows how to use his polarities in the right manner and can be at heart.
When we are centered and can be grateful and appreciative of our past, our future and our mistakes, then we have no shame or embarrasment in discussing our private life or hiding anything from anyone.
Our goal is to remain centered, in the present state.
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